If you did not judge, you would not accuse. If you did not judge, you would not accuse nor would you make excuses. Do not judge, and do not make excuses for yourself or others. Excuses are weak explanations, and explanations aren't worth much. Explanations are a dime a dozen. Anything can be explained one way or another. Explanations for choices are always excuses.

You are who you are because you are who you are. You do whatever you do because you do whatever you do. Living life is not a world science.

When you see something missing, fill it. When you see something amiss in your life, fix it.

Let Me make it clear that I am not saying you are to correct others. If that were successful, there would be nothing to correct by now.

When you see a situation lacking love, then fill the situation with love. Even if you are three thousand miles away, fill the situation with love.