Heavenletters

This morning, in my personal Godwriting, I asked God about the grief someone I know is going through about a good man who decided their lives must part.

I said to God::
This person is really going through it.

God said:
And she will come out of it.

Gloria:
And, God, my heart. I'm not so sure about my heart either.

God:
Do you know what, Gloria, it doesn’t matter. You are working for Me, and that matters.

Gloria:
Thank You, dear God. I think I understand. God, on the forum, people seem to be a little taken aback by Heavenletter # 2871 Beyond All Borders. We do suffer when a loved one dies etc. It is not only that we can’t help it; it is as though we must, as if we're swept up in a tide.

God:
Many must, Gloria. Perhaps all. As they believe, so it is.

Gloria:
I think of all the people I mourn, the days I mourn, how all that was will not be again.

God:
And that is how you believe, that people and things must be missed. I do not suggest that anyone deny their grief. I suggest that grief does not have to be. Grief does not have to triumph. Even those who mourn see others who mourn and never stop mourning, who stay in a mourning mode and do not go on with their lives, as though trapped in time – even mourners see that the depth and extent of another’s mourning may have gone on too long. They see that the need for mourning has outlived itself.

But, again, do not bemoan even your attachment to mourning. You are all doing fine.

In George’s case, he had a beautiful relationship, and his beautiful Adaire no longer is on Earth to share his worldly life. She is not here in the physical. She is missing from the world. She does not make him breakfast nor sit across from him. This is too terrible to contemplate, and yet it is the case every day. There is an empty chair and a gap in beloved George’s day to day life. And yet it is clear, through the tears, that George is moving on. He is not leaving his beloved partner of so many years, his love is not departing. His heart yearns, and his heart has. Whatever the hold sadness has, George is not stuck in it.

Over time, Our beloved Jim has transcended his grief. He has risen above. He truly sees from a greater perspective now. He was blessed to have, and now he is blessed even in what is seen as great loss to not have. In life it is not to have and to hold. In life, it is to have, so to speak, and to let go.

You are transcending time, beloveds.