How wonderful this
How wonderful this Heavenletter and how wonderful the postings, how interesting this story, or better this Lady. Indeed I think the first step towards a change, any change, should come from her, otherwise, you could go on endless hours on trying to convince her that she isn't at all terrible without any result, because in fact, she seems pretty determined to be in that role now. Again we are talking about roles, interesting.
I thing printing a Heavenletter, with all replies and just give it to her might be a good chance for her. I suppose something will change when she tired enough of what she's playing out now or when other events might occur. It is about healing, a deep inner healing. We should allow others to be whatever they choose to be of course, even if it's natural to want to help them to see things from a different point of view.
Much love and thanks to all
Berit
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Heavenletters™ help me to trust. They elicit a 'Yes, that's it!', they melt my heart, and they bowl me over with their love, incisiveness and wit. They remind me of the story of the great Tao fighters who can effortlessly disrobe you with one deft swish of a blade. At the end of a Heavenletter, my ego lies crumpled at my feet, and I'm swooning for more.